True Greatness

Sorry for the delay! Due to some personal events in my life I was unable to grace you all with the Messy Truth. But, I'm back! And today's topic deals with the latest news about celebrity couples relationships not being as Peachy as they seem. Matt Barnes (of the LA Lakers) and Gloria Govan, his ex-fiance (baby mother and live in girlfriend) perfect bubble was burst, when police showed up at their house due to an incomplete 911 call. Now any one who have seen at least one episode of Basket Ball wives, knows that Gloria was trying to have this facade that her and Matt had this perfect relationship and she was so much better than the other cast (can not say wives, because only one other cast mate is a Wife). And although she is denying that he hit her....the proof is in the pudding and if no one had bruises the police would not have taken him down. She still trying to keep up the lie....lol (silly hoe...tricks (lies/games) are for kids). Floyd Mayweather is also in a similar situation. His baby mother has the police out looking for him now because of domestic violence. He was all on the CHilli show trying to look like the perfect guy. I know Chilli is glad he did not become "What Chiili wants." Also Hedi Pratt and Spencer Pratt are also calling a quits after years of her defending him and saying that they had a great relationship and everybody else was just insane. Now she is worried about him having a tell-all book and sex tape released. And who could forget the Woods and Bullock scandals. With all that said the Messy Truth is stop lying and tell the truth. Every relationship has problems, but when you lie and try to act like Perfect Patty and Bre Van Der Kamp, when the truth comes to light.....all hell will breaks loose. I am a strong believe of what goes on behind closed doors should stay behind closed doors, but there is a HUGE difference between discretion and deceiving. I'm not saying tell everyone you having problems, but please do not be bragging how great your man is when he beating y'all fighting like a Vegas Pay per View Match. Also Do not be so caught up in you perfect facade that you can not pick up the settle signs of cheating that your man or woman is giving out. Because in the end YOU look stupid. Sandra, Elin, and Hedi all tried to act like they didn't know their man was cheating. I mean men are slick, but come on give me a break. Sandra you got with him while he was married, so I know you know how he acts when he cheating. Elin, you have nanny's so you were not so into your children or Job (because you had none), that you could not notice that Woods was not answering the phone late at night. And Hedi you had video footage proof so again I day you all look Stupid! Also Gloria and who every Floyd baby mama name is......you would not look so stupid if you did not try so hard to make this man look so great that you yourself have believed this lie. People (this includes non-celebrities), be real, No relationship is perfect. But if you stay true you will be able to recognize the problems and deal with them. If you can deal with them behind close doors then great, because once they come out there will be more issues added. So my advice to all people that are in some type of relationships (this includes casual relationships) Stop trying to Appear Great and work on Being Great.....and I'm just keeping it 100!